Some of us often fail to see what our partner truly desires. Sometimes we get too busy and sometimes don’t want to style ourselves that way. But sometimes looks are important. Otherwise, the ‘’love at first sight’’ concept wouldn’t exist. Would it?
6. Give him proper space:
Other than always probing into his business, try considering him some space. Spacing allows relationships to grow freely. If you try to linger into his mind and keep a check on him always, he would end up feeling that you lack trust in him and has become a burden in the relationship. Get to the ways to know your partner. Understand deeply what he wants. Why is he unnecessarily being rude to you at times? Or is it you not giving him proper space?
7. Take guidance from him:
Asking your partner for advice and guidance from time to time will make him feel wanted. When we love a person, we want to make a mark in their life. Your boy might feel that way too. It is your responsibility to give him his way. Taking his aids and asking him for help would make him a sense of responsibility towards you. Don’t ask for anything weird.
Go for life decisions and things that are difficult, because guys love to solve puzzles!
8. Confront him with your feelings:
The best you to make your man know that he matters to you is by assuring him that you love him, miss him so bad when he isn’t around you. In our busy schedules, often we forget to say that we care. Relationships are hard to commit. It takes time and energy to keep up with your promises. With time the love for each other changes. Yeah, change is a part of life, but the people whom we love, should we change towards them? A BIG NO. Other than waiting for him, just hug him and say “I love you.”
9. Give him surprises:
Arrange birthdays, dates, and get-togethers, as he does for you. Why does it have to be the man always doing these things? Why can’t the woman do this?
Like you expect your partner to surprise you, your mate might be thinking of it too. He isn’t God. He too has expectations. He would never ask you for any surprises. But still, they do have such desires. It’s your duty to fulfill that.
1. Don’t be egoistic:
Ego kills. If you are an egoistic one, then do not show such an attitude to your man. He might not like it at all. Rather it would mess things up.
2. Don’t insult him, rather correct him:
Other than pointing out his flaws, try fixing them. Because that’s what partners do. If you are the dominating one, you should have this edge over him. Without insulting or hurting him by words, try to be polite and respectful when discussing flaws.
3. Don’t force him over anything:
Do Not burden him up with things that he really doesn’t enjoy. Maybe at first, he won’t say a thing, but slowly his temper would change. You can’t force anyone for anything.
You are his companion. You should know what he hates the most.
Rather than pushing his buttons, you should ask him for things. Take his consent before you take steps.