6. Decorate his room.
This is another cute way to make your man feel special.
You can redesign the interior of his room, reshuffle the furniture, change the dirty sheets and pillow covers, add wallpaper with pictures of you two, throw off those dull curtains,fill that corner with a colored lampshade. You can also add floating candles on the table along with some subtle scents.
All these little things are going to make your man feel special, happy and positive.
Your man would never mind you being an interior designer for a day and bringing a change in his room. He will notice those efforts you make to prove to him that he is lovable.
And the perk? Decorating his room with new furnishings can make his room a perfect nest for sharing the love.
7. Surprise! Surprise!
It’s doing the little things for your man and making him feel they are lucky to have you.
There are so many times they liked something in the mall and didn’t buy it for himself. Instead, he made sure to buy you what you like.
It’s time for you to return back the equal amount of love, by surprising him with the things he often dreams of buying or wanted to buy but did not.
It does not have to be an expensive car, it just may be the wallet or that leather jacket he would need for the next trip out with his friends, a hunter shoe for trekking because you noticed the old one is no more in a nice condition.
Surprising your man with valuable gifts will generate feelings and will help in nurturing the relationship.
8. Lend him a thoughtful ear
Sometimes it’s okay to fight and argue, it lets your man know that you care for him in a special way.
Not all fights can be negative, depending on the gravity of the issue. A relationship can never be perfect if two people don’t fight with each or agree on most things. When you communicate your limits,your boundaries and your expectations from the relationship to each other, in a healthy way, you two become a strong team.
A man is not always supposed to be tough. There will be circumstances when your man might emotionally break down. Hear him out, provide him the comfort zone to open up, be expressive, be concerned about his well being; let him know that you will stick to him through thick and thin.
After all, he is YOUR man. You are to take care of his physical, emotional, sexual, spiritual, and mental troubles. Who else other than you would really seem to be bothered when he misses out his lunch because of work pressure?
Keep reminding him that you are never going to let him fight alone.
9. Forgive him.
Many times, we become too entangled in our conflictual inner world and fail to notice how those are effecting our interactions with others.
Your partner might have forgotten your anniversary date or your birthday and all you do is end up thrashing him for being so heartless.
Know that your man always has the best interest for you. If he did something that hurt you, its because it was unintentional. Instead of using passive-aggressive techniques like guilt tripping, stonewalling and silent treatment, directly communicate what hurt you.
Next, get rid of your pride and forgive him.
It not only helps bring back a positivity between you both but also restores your mental peace. After all, peace and harmony are the keys to a healthy relationship.
10. Don’t give up on him.
Last but not least, NEVER ever think of giving upon him. Love is about being patient and considerate. Things might get extremely difficult between you both from time to time. The boat might get rocky, the sea might get rough. But hold on to him.
Have patience and never think of leaving him. If you are going through a hard time with him, don’t look for escape elsewhere. Be faithful to him, wait till you mend things between both of you. You never know, the next time you and him as a unit, might emerge out stronger!
Learn to fix, not throw away something which is broken.
The more you are being authentic and admiring, everything will work out just fine. When you follow these effortless ways and make him feel special, you will be making him feel more attracted to you.
When he’ll recall your sweet efforts and appreciations, he will feel like the luckiest man to have you.
There are so many things that a man does to make her girl feel special and happy, it’s time that we do for them and let them know that our life would not be exciting if they wouldn’t be part of it.
Love your man.
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