What Women Want From Men: How To Be A Perfect Match For Her

What Women Want From Men: How To Be A Perfect Match For Her

Being a consistent lover to a woman is no easy task, in fact, it may be seem to be terribly difficult and daunting at times! What does a woman really want in an ideal partner whom they desire, what women want? what do women look for in a man? These are the questions that have bugged most men, throughout centuries in the past and for centuries to come.

However, it is quite ironic that the answers are quite simple, yet many struggles to find them. If you are a man who wants to know the secrets to succeed in your endeavor with the woman of your dreams, you are in the right place.

Admit it, none of us are perfect. And of course, it is not possible to become the picture-perfect person every woman is looking for. However, we already are blessed with some qualities that others might lack, and lack in some qualities that we can hone and develop on our own.

It is best to have a bit of all the qualities,  and of course, it’s okay to make mistakes as long as we learn from them and take care not to repeat them in our future. It is certainly not humanly possible to become the epitome of perfection, however, we can try and get close to it as much as possible.

Following are some dating advice for men and qualities that a woman seeks for in the man who she thinks is suitable for her:

1. Honesty, but not too much of it

The heading might leave you confused, however too little or too much honesty is never a good thing. You need to strike the right balance for everything in life, and honesty is a quality that is no exception. While the woman wants you to be honest with her about most things in life, especially those concerning you and your future with her, she could do without you complaining or cribbing about her appearance. After all, it is something that is not in our complete control at all times and does not require your judgment or your negative response. Do not say that she looks like shit when she does. We all deserve sweet lies sometimes.

2. Show that you care for her

No matter how much of an alpha male you are, if you truly love and care for your partner, your better half in life, then you become a gentle giant in her presence. You need to show that you care for her, in a physical, practical way and of course, an emotional way as well. This does not mean that you have to become subservient to her in any way, but you can do small things for her every day or on a regular basis to win her love and attention. Be there for her when she needs you, love her when she does not feel worthy enough of loving herself; love her when she is not strong enough to hold herself together.

In return, you will get her constant assistance and support when you have no one by your side; she will protect you with the last remaining bone in her body even when the entire world goes against you.

3. Be understanding and compassionate to her

She does not want a mean, egoistical person as her life partner and it is a common mistake that men make- of appearing too high-handed whenever they become financially secure or when they are attractive to many women. If you think that telling your girlfriend about how many women have been hitting on you, it certainly does not make you appear more attractive or desirable to her, rather it is a huge turnoff.

She needs a loyal and strong companion who will be by her side and understand her without her needing to explain herself, in every single way with minute details to him.  She needs your kindness and compassion, that is the only way your relationship can be fulfilling and hold a deeper meaning to her.

4. Make her feel secure

Here, security means both on a financial and physical level. Women need to be shown that you are capable enough to take responsibilities and handle the more difficult tasks in life that are handed to you, as a strong and capable man. 

5. Be strong

It has been said time and again, women are attracted to men who are mentally and physically strong. Women mature faster compared to men, and perhaps this is the reason that many women prefer dating or being with much older and mature men.

They want you to be their constant, their pillar of support and while it is alright to be vulnerable for certain durations when life becomes extremely challenging, it is also important that you get back up and conquer the world, attain all that you have set for yourself. How you portray yourself to the world, your image, and your charisma all matter, especially to the people who are closest to you.

Above mentioned were some sure-shot techniques for making progress in getting the woman you cherish or desire for in life. Most importantly, it is important to always have a certain amount of confidence level and not be bogged down by any individual or any challenge that presents to you in your lifetime. It is important that you have optimism, that you see that ray of light at the end of the dark tunnel. Treat everyone with empathy while wholeheartedly focusing on the goals you wish to achieve in life. I hope this helps!


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